I wonder if someone could suggest me a good Anti-Virus to tackle with a deadly Trojan Virus affecting my brain… The virus doesn’t have a known set of symptoms but according to certain known facts, its considered as a destructive program that masquerades as a Good Feeling in one’s Life, but in actual its an unexpected insidious pain. The Virus Name is Love. Unlike other viruses or worms, it do not replicate itself, but it can be just as destructive. 
– P.S. Need Help!

That was exactly how i felt when i first fell in love. Being an IT Engineer by profession, i felt love as an unwanted disturbing phenomenon when it first happened to me. But later with time my definition for love changed completely. 
One of my friend describes love as,

“Love is the beautiful cause and hurt is the menacing effect, and the lovely/scary/funny fact is that they are a couple and are soul mates” 
Well i completely agree with Avinash… Love brings happiness in ones life, but it also brings many other unwanted things along with it. So let me explain you what love actually means….
Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, 
but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, 
be lost in it, and among all, never… never forget it.
Curtis Judalet

It is the most innate feeling experienced by every human being at some or the other point of time in life. Loving and being loved makes us imagine a world around us, where we find ourselves walking on the beach hand in hand, watching television, sharing work, or in that case, growing old together. We start living the future.

Love is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of his personality.
Viktor E. Frankl
Oh all this sounds so exciting! Yes, it actually is.
Living the future is enthralling, but in the process, we tend to ignore the reality. Why not but? 
Reality is such a show stopper in reality, and who wants to spoil the party. Let’s just ignore it.

Love is always bestowed as a gift – freely, willingly and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love.
Leo Buscaglia
The true meaning and impact of love comes to the fore when we fear losing the one, or in fact, when we lose the one—reasons can be plentiful.
The mind knows but doesn’t accept and the heart feels but doesn’t approve, and then there is this sharp pain, right between the lungs, with every breath that we take in—those who have had it will surely agree.

Forever is not a word…rather a place where two lovers go when true love takes them there.
In the process of understanding the nature of this immense pain, we realize that need, dependence, fear, loneliness—the list is eternal, all had come together, camouflaged as what we thought was love.
Love has no desire but to fulfill itself.  To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.  To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving.  
Kahlil Gibran
After this reality check, living appears to be the most difficult of tasks.
You go around and tell everyone, how pathetic you feel. No one understands though, what you are going through. Your heart sinks with every passing thought, and you feel like stopping your breath for the rest of your life. These sinking thoughts continue till your mind accepts the facts 
and your heart approves.

Love is like a roller coaster,
Once you have completed the ride,
you want to go again.
In the next phase, you start distracting yourself from these thoughts, and focus on things that were distractions while you were in love. And that’s the best thing about human beings. They are hardcoded with an instinct to live. (Here too there are a few with programming bugs)

To l.o.v.e. is to admire with the heart:
to admire is to love with the mind.
Theophile Gautier
So, if you don’t want to be destroyed in love, then understanding this code is important.

 “You can only l.o.v.e., the moment you try to possess or feel like being possessed, you fall prey to its tricks”
Something about love, despair, and life (As per the little experience I have):
L.o.v.e. appears in moments, how long can I hold a moment,
 as my moment fades, I yearn to catch sight or sound of you, 
to feel the surging of my heart erupt into joyous sounds of laughter.
Chris Watson

 “You aren’t there anymore….to listen to me about how bad I feel without you, which is fine as I never wanted to pass my pains to you, even when you were there with me. I just wanted you to be happy. I am just sad about still achieving my dreams and finding happiness in life, and not being able to share it with you. Oh, I love you so much, and that I’ll always do.”

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  1. Is love simply the liking of body only or emotions or thoughts or anything else?
    Let me meditate. May come again to explore and discuss with you.

  2. Rakesh Sir… i'm waiting for your reply.. because i know you will definitely come out with an amazing answer on this Topic.. but if you ask me wat love is… all i can say is dat…
    "I need to write a whole book to describe it" 🙂

  3. such as beautiful post about a love and i can say such type love is only a virtual and whatever we are getting around us as we know conditional in terms ;one thing how many lover would get scree merely thing about depart ,here every thing is as time pass so people r enjoying for while .

  4. Dear Sunny,
    I have asked a question.I am still awaiting a reply from you.Anyway,I love your emotions.
    How do you love me,I don't know.But,I feel you too love me.It would be my pleasure,if you write a book on love.Then, I may also understand love in a better way.
    Please,also reply where from the love originates ?

  5. @Rajeev Ranjan Shahi- thanks… love has a different meaning from situation to situation… For me Love is just caring endlessly and submitting yourself to the one you love 🙂
    @Rakesh Sir – We all luv each other in different ways and in a different behavioral manner. Love can be defined in just a single word "Submission", When u luv sumone like ur parents,god,friends or simply someone special u tend to believe in them, trust them and care for them… In dat phase u just want to give n give… even if it means getting nothing in return.. u submit urself to them… because u believe every thing will be alrite…
    Regarding yr qns – Is love simply the liking of body only or emotions or thoughts or anything else?
    The Answer is what you feel is correct at that time… liking of body can also be called luv… because it gives u pleasure when u see sum one u love… emotions like crying or laughing remembering certain memories of ur loved ones is also love… We see love in every corner of the world… right from when we get up in the the time we go to bed…Love exists in all forms, shapes and sizes… From praying in the morning to helping an old lady cross the road or from listening to ur fav song to fighting over a TV remote with ur sibling, Love is everywhere…. the list is endless!